I read a recent article titled, The Lethality of Loneliness by Judith Shulevitz in the New Republic. In it she examines the damage loneliness creates on the body and brain.
Fromm-Reichmann believed that loneliness was “a want of intimacy” that lay at the heart of nearly all mental illness. In her estimation,
“the lonely person was just about the most terrifying spectacle in the world.”
Loneliness entered the world when Adam and Eve ditched God’s oversight of them and forged an independent path for themselves. (See Genesis 3)
Since then men and women are born with separation anxiety.
We come into the world separated from the One who created us and loves us.
No one is exempt.
The symptoms are all around us:
Fear, insecurity, self-absorption, lack of trust, and depression just to name a few.
What can we do about it?
The truth is no amount of therapy will do the job.
Ignoring the symptoms won’t make them go away.
Drugs and alternative therapies, including alcohol, chocolate and high-risk sports, only mask the problem.
So what’s left?
Every one of us has a longing to be known and to be loved, and that is precisely what Jesus gives us.
In all our disjointed attempts at intimacy, there is only One who can bring us into the harmony and approval we crave.
There is salvation in no one else! God has given no other name under heaven by which we must be saved. – Acts 4:12 (New Living Translation)
It was Jesus who died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins (our estrangement), and was raised to new life to bring us to God.
And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. – Romans 8:38 (New Living Translation)
We don’t know if Fromm-Reichmann ever knew there was a solution to loneliness. Probably not.
But we do.
Are you ready to trade your life apart from God and embrace the One who loves you and gave Himself for you? This goes for the Christian, too!
Talk to me.